Baby Makes Three

“Did someone seriously ask you that?” I asked, trying my best not to laugh.

“Yep,” Raven nodded solemnly. “Remind me to never have sons.”

“I’ll do that,” I said, turning my attention back to the schoolyard.

“So,” Raven prodded. “What happened last night?”

“Nothing,” I said dismissively.

“Well it must have been something. You’ve never stayed out that late. Especially not with a guy.”

“He’s not a guy,” I reminded. “According to Child Protective Services, he is Emmy’s temporary legal guardian.”

“Ok, but that still doesn’t change the fact that he’s sex on legs,” Raven pointed out. “Or the fact that you went home with him last night.”

This time I couldn’t resist the urge to burst out laughing, and I’m glad I did. It gave me an excuse for the bright red blush that crept over my cheeks. And that was not the only reaction my body had at the mention of Caleb Preston. I also felt a hot tingle between my legs; the same electric jolt I felt last night, when we kissed.

“Seriously though,” Raven said, scooting a little bit closer to me and lowered her voice. “Did anything happen between you two?”

I kept my eyes pointed away, because I knew I would just keep blushing if I had to look Raven in the eye.

“We kissed,” I admitted.

“What!” Raven gasped, and I hear the soft thud of her cheese stick slip from her fingers and land on the concrete. “Daisy! That’s crazy! You never kiss anyone!”

“I know!” I shushed her, shooting her a quick glare. “And not that it’s any of your business, but I don’t plan on kissing him again. It was a one-time thing.”

“I wasn’t… I didn’t mean it like a bad thing,” Raven stammered quickly. “I’m just… shocked. He’s not really your type.”

“My type?” I shot her an inquisitive look. “Or do you mean that I’m not his type?”

“Well, both I guess,” Raven shrugged. “He’s not your type, because you’re a total prude who won’t date anything with a pulse… even a vibrator. And you’re not his type because he only seems to date the kind of girls who wear lingerie as formalwear.”

“Ok, first of all, I’m not a prude,” I protested, reminding myself to keep my voice down. “I just don’t see the point of wasting my time or effort on a guy that would inevitably lie, cheat, or leave me.”

“That’s such an unhealthy outlook,” Raven interrupted. “You’ve got to let go of these weird dating hang-ups that you’ve been holding onto for years. Your dad was an asshole, I get it. And some guy broke your heart in high school. But that doesn’t mean all men are assholes. And it’s definitely not a valid reason to never try dating.”

I ignored what Raven said and I ignored that she’d brought up one of my most vulnerable insecurities.

“Second of all,” I said, pretending she never interrupted me, “I don’t need a vibrator. There are more fulfilling things in life than sex, you know.”

“Says the girl who has never had sex,” Raven said, pressing her lips together smugly.

“I don’t need to have sex to know that it isn’t worth all the heartache and baggage that comes along with it.”

This was a conversation that Raven and I have had dozens of times. She has never been able to wrap her head around me being a virgin, and I’ve never been able to accept her casual outlook on sex.

I haven’t told Raven all the reasons why I was so reluctant to have sex. The biggest reason wasn’t about my emotional hang-ups or trust issues, although those were significant factors as well. The biggest reason why I had avoided sex for my entire adult life was because I could never have an orgasm by myself.

I have tried everything: vibrators, toys, my own hands. Nothing. The closest I’ve gotten was tingles. Little waves that tickled as they pulsed through my veins. Which was not exactly the spine-tingling pleasure that movies and women’s magazines promised me.

Maybe it was selfish, but I guessed I always figured that if sex was just going to lead to disappointment at best, and heart

break at worst, what was the point of trying at all? I was happy enough living life without all the complications, and I didn’t think I was really missing out on anything.

Until last night. Until kissing Caleb awakened something inside me that I had never felt before. It scared me, but at the same time, I wanted more.

I was trying to think of a way to express this to Raven, when my thoughts were interrupted by the familiar scuffle of boots running over concrete.