“Dinner?”
“My entire day is pretty packed.” I smiled weakly. “I’ll be working late to transfer my notes into the case files.”
Baldwin frowned. “Lunch. We can eat in your office, if you’d like.”
He wasn’t going to take no for an answer. “Umm…sure.”
After he left, I thought better of having Baldwin at the office for lunch and texted him I’d meet him at a nearby restaurant. Not that I was concerned Drew would be upset or anything, but there was no telling what might come out of Drew’s mouth.
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
Today, I’d like to say ___________________ to you, and show you I mean it.
After adding the daily quote to my whiteboard, I added it to my website and then began reviewing my case files. I had back-to-back therapy sessions this afternoon, and I wanted to be prepared in case I was late returning from lunch. Baldwin texted earlier that he’d made reservations at Seventh Street Café, a cloth-napkin-type lunch restaurant that could take a while to prepare their elaborate dishes. They didn’t make burgers. They made Kobe beef burgers with fennel seeds cooked in free-range duck fat—something exotic-sounding to justify the twenty-five-dollar price tag.
Half an hour before lunch, I was surprised when Baldwin showed up at the office instead of meeting me at the restaurant as we’d planned.
“I thought we were meeting at Seventh Street Café?”
“I was in the neighborhood, so I thought I’d pick you up on the way.”
I told him to come into my office so I could grab my coat and power down my laptop. Drew had been on an all-morning conference call, and of course he finished up right at that moment. He walked into my office without knowing anyone was there.
“What are you in the mood for? I was thinking dirty-water dogs. Feel like taking a walk up to—” He stopped in place when he saw Baldwin. “Didn’t realize you had company.”
I caught the slight tick in his jaw. He definitely wasn’t fond of Baldwin.
Of course, Baldwin didn’t help the cause. He responded snidely, “Yes. We have a lunch date at a place where they don’t serve dirty food.”
Drew looked to me, and his eyes conveyed what he didn’t say out loud to Baldwin. Then he turned and went back to his office, offering only, “Enjoy your clean food,” over his shoulder as he walked away.
I’d almost made it out of the office when Baldwin stopped to read my daily quote.
He turned to me. “Your clients like this sort of thing?”
I was defensive. “Yes. I put the same daily quote up on my website where people connect and disconnect for video-counseling sessions. Leaving people with an inspirational quote and a suggestion for giving more to their relationship is a positive reinforcement to my sessions.”
“I guess that depends on what you’re suggesting.”
I was confused at what he didn’t like about it, because I’d actually gotten the idea for daily quotes from one of his TA sessions back in college. I couldn’t imagine why he seemed disturbed by my utilizing it.
As I walked out the door, I stopped to reread my quote.
Drew.
I was going to kill him.
He’d modified.
Again.
I’d written:
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
Today, I’d like to say ___________________ to you, and show you I mean it.
He must have changed it while my door was closed. It now read: